On my 4th marriage now and to all of you I must say there's nothing wrong with 2 unhappy people getting happy.My ex's are wonderful and were wonderful but just unhappy as I was.Nothing hurts a kid worse than a fractured family with both mom and dad fighting and miserable.I am not pro divorce but if both parties have given an honest effort and it's not there get a divorce.Get one fast and don't fight over material stuff.Who knows you may get back together again.Marriages are like teeth sometimes they can't be saved.Keep smiling and make amends with your ex as soon as you can.And you all know this,don't criticize anyone mother or father.
all the best,
lizzzard