Well, Trinacriabob, it's not exactly that I'm lacking all of those qualities--I'm pretty masculine when it comes to gay men. I am not the "stereotypical" gay, I hate shopping, LOVE electronics, dress like a straight man (little sense of fashion), and get this: I love breasts. Sure, wish my voice was a little deeper... maybe I wish I was built bigger, but that I can accomplish on my own.I'm talking from a purely physical standpoint, that is the type of man I'm attracted to... I have more fun sexually with a bigger guy--for example, and not getting into too much detail, I love to wrestle around in bed. Can't exactly do that with a scrawny man when I'm a broad-built, 6'3" man myself, unless I'm into overpowering the guy every time. I like a challenge.
There are super-manly men who are attracted to other manly men. There are manly men attracted to flamboyant waifish men. And there are waifish men who are attracted to other waifs... TOTALLY depends on the individual.. has nothing to do with the qualities they're "lacking". Sure, it's possible for some, but in general. Do you crave breasts because you don't have your own? If that's the case, get some implants.
When not speaking of the physical, the attributes I'm attracted to are universal--both a man and a woman could possess them. I love intelligence... thrive on a great conversation, a different point of view, a dibate from another. I actually cannot, no matter how hot the guy is, be with a guy who's a complete dullard.... it just wouldn't work.
I love a motivated person, someone motivated in their career as well as personal life.
The guy I'm completely 100% insane over right now, well, to describe him he seems nearly perfect: built like a tank, athletic, incredible face, beautiful smile, dimples, talented in everything he attempts, brilliant--I mean, just absolutely brilliant--incredible sense of humor and quick-witted, diverse, adventurous, outgoing, romantic, masculine and caring. PHENOMENAL in the sack--like he should be in the Olympics. The list just goes on and on.