Bob, why do you spend so much time interpreting my life in depth? ;)
I refer to "them" because it's been so long since I've found someone that has sparked any interest at all, that has actually been attainable. John, well, started out as "attainable". He was completely possible. We hit it off, but when you would naturally segue from friend to "more than friends", he felt we were awesome as friends, but not awesome as "more". He feels we're similar in many respects and looking for the same thing, which, to a degree is true... and I can see that as a problem as he is different enough from me for me to be attracted to him (as I'm looking for someone who is not my identical twin, but someone who compliments me by having many, and pardon the word, opposite characteristics), but I'm not different enough from him to compliment him in the ways he likes.
So, we went the friends route. Unfortunately, I did something that I shouldn't have done, which is sleep with him. He looked at it as just casual fun between two buddies, and I tried to, but I can't just do that... I tend to have a lot of emotion involved when I'm sleeping with someone. Well, that emotion got displaced and I felt closer to him, but not in a "friends-only" way.
As for the drama, yeah, well, with him, there is. Not directly to him, but rather about him. I am calm and cool around him, but in the background, I'm wildly crazy about him. It's sorta fading, so that's a good thing. The drama is going out with the feelings.
Italians are emotional, you know this. However, don't picture me as this "drama queen" that has melodrama 24/7. John's only a very small portion of my life... there are a million other things in life that keep me well filled. I'd think it'd be a pretty empty life for me if all I had to dwell on was a sole friend. This is, however, a thread I started to talk about situations like this.