See, this is where you're getting tripped up and why horsepower is really irrelevant to EVs. Horsepower is measured as a function of RPM. An EV can have 1,000 ft-lb of torque but 0 horsepower because the motor isn't moving (lets pretend the parts between the motor and the ground won't snap or spin for now). Most naturally aspirated V6es don't make their peak horsepower until high in the RPM band. The engine has to be screaming at 6000 or 7000 rpm to get that horsepower. EVs start their max torque at ZERO rpm and eventually the torque rating backs off.
Take a look at the EV9 link @G. David Felt posted. The torque rating for the EV9 base model is 258 lb-ft from 0 - 4000 rpm, after 4000 rpm it likely tapers off. The 3.8 liter makes 262 lb-ft, only a 4 lb-ft difference, but it doesn't make it until 5,200 rpm. That means that from every point from 0 - just about 5,000 rpm, the EV9 is producing more torque. Also remember that there is no spin-up delay for more torque in an EV, if you want more torque, it is instant. They actually have to soften the pedal reaction times significantly because people are used to driving gassers and the on-off power abilities of EVs are too sudden.
If you ever get behind the wheel of a Lucid Air GT or Model-S Plaids and put it into whatever the highest sport mode setting is, you'll see the difference in pedal responsiveness and how much they have to really dial it back for the peasant models.
An EV motor doesn't need to spin faster to make more torque, a gas engine does.
Who's racing 3-row crossovers? The EV will be a more pleasant and satisfying acceleration experience.
People make way too much noise about EV weights as if vehicle weight hasn't been ballooning for 20 years. I'm going to sneer at a Model Y's weight, but does an X5 or Ford Explorer Limited 4-cylinder weigh the same? A Model-3 LR weighs 200 lbs less than my Chrysler 300C AWD, and I manage to get a normal amount of life out of my tires. It's the heavy right feet in the EVs.
I know you have a lot of other things on your plate, but if you ever get free time to go test drive something, take it.