I'm a patient guy usually (except on the road), and I'll put up with a lot of crap. But, it isn't wise to push me beyond my tolerance level. Bully types don't understand the risk they run by hassling someone who seems tolerant. I was always small and skinny in school and some fools thought that that made me an easy target. They weren't ready for the verbal abuse I could and would throw at them. The more persistant (read stupid) ones would get mad and try to make it physical on occassion - that was a mistake. Little guys don't fight for sport or social status - they fight for survival. Fighting for survival makes all the BS about "fighting fair" go right out the window. You attack a little guy - be prepared to get hurt, because if he can't get away he is going to attempt to disable you anyway possible. Your eyes, ears and balls are in jeopardy whether or not you know it, and if you really push him to far he may attempt to kill you. He won't just stand there and trade punches with you - he'll kick you in the nuts and throw hot coffee in your face in an instant. Bullies are a bit slow to learn this reality - but they don't soon forget the lesson.
Ages ago, when I was in high school, a group of bully types decided that haslling me would be great fun. Lots of stupid barbs were thrown at me and I retaliated in kind. No big deal. One day, one of the "lesser" members of this crowd (who sat in front of me in class) made a big mistake. He turned in his seat AND SPIT IN MY FACE! Well. I grabbed him around the neck and dragged him backward out of his seat and over my desk to the floor. The class erupted and the teacher freaked out. This distracted me enough that I paused a second. When I looked down at this kid's face, he was turning blue!
That's when I got scared and dropped him on the floor.
After he caught his breath, I could see abject terror in his face.
I wasn't hassled again.
Don't F-with little guys, it's dangerous.