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NOS2006

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Just got a billion times better.

There's a girl I've been trying to date for two solid years now. Solid. We dated off and on a couple times and finally a few months ago she told me she just wanted to be friends, and I was fine with that because I honestly want whatever makes her happy. Well tonight she told me she wants to date and basically she's sorry for what happened before.

You can't imagine the craze in my head right now.

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Just be careful. Girls will occasionally play games like that...

Now I'm interested.

Now I'm not.

Now I'm interested.

Now I'm not.

It just keeps going.

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Just be careful. Girls will occasionally play games like that...

Now I'm interested.

Now I'm not.

Now I'm interested.

Now I'm not.

It just keeps going.

Yeah, I'm going to watch out for that. My mom actually told me the same thing last night. But, then again, I've always believed in this little poem/quote:

If you love something, let it go.

If it comes back, it is yours.

If it doesn't, it never was.

We'll see what happens. Unfortunately, I think this might honestly be the only girl in the world that could hurt me. Every girl who could've hurt me in the past I kind of just looked past it, broke it off, and went on my merry way.. but it's always been different with her. Like I said, we'll see what happens...

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Good for you NOS. I hope she gives turns out to be your missing rib.

Kinda gives me inspiration to keep my own year-and-a-half long chase going.

Oh, and :useless:

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Thanks, gents. :smilewide:

I'll post a pic later, you'll all approve. :AH-HA_wink:

And Z, don't give up my friend. If she's worth it and you know she is, don't be afraid to try to let go a little, but don't give up. I've been everything from stranger to almost-boyfriend with Brianna, and it's lasted just over 2 years now (I remember being particularly nice to her Valentine's Day two years ago...). Don't give up, brother!

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Yeah, I'm going to watch out for that. My mom actually told me the same thing last night. But, then again, I've always believed in this little poem/quote:

If you love something, let it go.

If it comes back, it is yours.

If it doesn't, it never was.

We'll see what happens. Unfortunately, I think this might honestly be the only girl in the world that could hurt me. Every girl who could've hurt me in the past I kind of just looked past it, broke it off, and went on my merry way.. but it's always been different with her. Like I said, we'll see what happens...

Bud....congrats! You deserve it....! Just be careful and mindful like others on here have said......

I'm guilty myself of letting my defenses down once too many times....but I also know how great it feels to have something you've longed for......

Good luck!!!!!!

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I don't think I can be of any meaningful advice personally given my ever evident status... but I have a friend who has since left town for college, let's call him "James". He had a GF from the September at the start of the 12th Grade for an entire year... Let's call her "Christina". Nice enough girl though a bit of a drama queen. He was committed to the relationship 100% (too committed to a HS relationship if you ask me), but she left him once every two weeks (literally) and came back the next day... It was very taxing on the relationship and it was like they went through twenty years of marriage in eleven months... They both moved to the same university town and almost the second she was in with another "school of fish", so to speak, she was gone like the wind.

I would approach your potential newfound relationship with caution, because girls make next to no sense, she could be using you etc, etc...

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Nope, you haven't already seen her.. that I know of. haha

vonVeezelsnider:

I'll agree that girls make no sense, and your buddy's story is nuts. I couldn't stay a month with a girl like that, let alone eleven. But I am a kind of different person I guess. I won't honestly date a girl unless I know that I absolutely can't find any flaws in that girl or myself at that time. There have been a few girls in the last 6 months or so that I could've seen myself dating, but every time I thought of getting closer to these girls, I couldn't think of anything but Brianna, so I couldn't commit myself to someone else knowing that's not the person I'd be thinking of all the time.

Brianna hasn't really "toyed" with me at all though AFAIK. We started out as friends and I quickly developed a like for her.. that's about when I made a go for it the first time two years ago at Valentine's. She appreciated my motive, but I could tell she wasn't into me the same way that I was into her, so I chilled it out and we remained friends. Well, time had passed and about 3-4 months ago I decided to give it another try. After a week or two of dating, she kind of politely let me know that she didn't think of us as anymore than friends and asked if that was okay, and I agreed that it was fine, but on the inside it wasn't. I tried to push those feelings back as deep as I could and, since, she's invited me to dinner with just her (basically a date), and she'll write me all the time and we'll talk. She tells me all the time that we need to hang out more, too.

However, it wasn't until last night that she was sending all these "I like you" signals and I was going crazy. I was talking to my best friend at the same time saying, "You know.. I know she knows I like her, but she keeps doing this. I'm going to have to say something before I let my emotions get the best of me." He agreed and I ended up talking to her about it. I reminded her that I liked her and have gave a very honest try to push those feelings back, but the things she's been saying are really getting to me and I can't let that happen if I know she doesn't feel the same way. She replied with something along the lines of, "Honestly, I started feeling something I used to feel with you in the past while we've been talking lately, too, and I think that we should at least try dating again."

She went into detail that she's the type of person who will get a little bit into something and push out because she's scared of commitment or something. She knows her fault, and that's huge to me; that means she understands. Maybe she does want to give it an honest try. And she told me that the last time she did try, her boyfriend was a real douche and hurt her, and she isn't really ready for a full relationship yet, but is definitely ready to date. So, I'll go with the flow and see where this takes me...

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